If your loved one is far away, virtual sex can give you both intense pleasure. If he is close, but your relationship clearly needs updating, virtual is also suitable.
Today, with a smartphone and at least a somewhat vivid imagination, you can instantly cover thousands of kilometers of distances – including sensually and emotionally. “Despite the fact that sexual arousal and release experienced during this act can be extremely pleasant, the dynamics of virtual sex are also fraught with certain risks. It is very important to understand the advantages and disadvantages of this type of sex before deciding whether it is right for you,” explains sexologist Olga Vasilenko.
How common is virtual sex?
Virtual sex, like masturbation, is one of those topics that are not suitable for polite small talk. And just because it is never discussed openly, most people cannot even imagine how common such phenomena are. Let's be clear right away: sex is any action with a virtual partner that leads to arousal and, possibly, to orgasm. The advantages of virtual sex are as follows.
Photo: Social networks Helps build an intimate life Vulgar text messages, obscene pictures, voice notes in a deep, hoarse voice – all of them can work to build or revive an intimate relationship between a couple in reality. “This is sure to heighten the anticipation and leave you both awestruck and excited. As you try out the different fantasies discussed in sex messages in real life, your sex life will blossom again. In this sense, the virtual and relationships can feed each other,” says Olga. It’s more enjoyable than masturbation This act can bring intense and deep sexual satisfaction, more enjoyable than masturbating alone. You help the other person get aroused, and they reciprocate. “Even if there are no obligations, virtual reality turns out to be a very pleasant way to spend time,” says the sexologist. Antidote to prohibitions One of the main advantages of virtual reality is that it helps to get rid of inhibitions and reveal your sexual personality. “In a new relationship, when both partners are still exploring each other and do not dare to take a step forward, virtual sex can help break the ice and understand what you both want from sex and from relationships in general,” says Olga. Long-distance relationships If you and your partner are in a long-distance relationship, you know that longing and unsatisfied sexual desire is the root cause of a number of problems. “With virtual, you don’t have to wait until you’re next to each other to feel that intimate connection,” says Olga. Photo: Social networks Always there is a risk of exposure A study found that 17% of people who engage in sexting and virtual sex share the contents of their conversations or even videos with other people. There is always a risk that someone else will view your passionate encounters or “dirty correspondence”. Are you prepared for this? Do you completely trust your partner? Your virtual may become a victim of hackers Even if you trust your partner, you cannot rule out the risk that your sex chats will fall into the hands of hackers and leak onto the Internet. Every message transmitted electronically leaves a digital trace. A person with the necessary skills and intentions can follow this trail, find these messages – yes, even those you deleted – and use them for other purposes. The consequences of this can be catastrophic. “So try not to show your face, tattoos, the interior of your apartment – in a word, anything that can identify you – in the frame. Use only secure communication channels and set the settings to automatically delete, say, after an hour,” Olga reminds.
